2014年10月31日 星期五

四然

家门,成长地方 ;
心门,成功地方 !

赶走门中小人,
唤醒心中巨人!

人生

来是偶然,去是必然,
尽其当然,顺其自然

2014年10月30日 星期四

七要

關係、參與、給力、耶穌、外展、網絡、改變 : 以耶穌為中心的七要,是小組教會倡導的 "基要" !

2014年10月29日 星期三

全球 10.6%兒童的光景

近接到報導提到全球大約有2,700萬現代奴隸。十八歲以下童工人數達1.68億,相等於全球10.6% 兒童人口。他們沒有接受教育機會,有一半人正面對極度危險處境,包括性工作、童兵、毒害等。他們不單沒得到足夠食物與教育,更失去愛與自由。求聖靈和教會合力作工,向這群體伸出援手。

幸福是

幸福是 珍惜现在拥有的 感谢上帝供应
幸福是 分享自己领受的 叫别人得利益
幸福是 相信圣经所写的 每句都是真理
幸福是 卸下重担给上帝 因他必看顾你

2014年10月26日 星期日

都有原因 !

每一个在你的生命里出现的人, 都有原因。

喜欢你的人, 给了你温暖和勇气。
你喜欢的人, 让你学会了爱和自持。

你不喜欢的人, 教会你宽容与尊重。
不喜欢你的人, 让你自省与成长。

三等人

上等人谈智慧。
中等人谈事情,
下等人谈是非;

上等人付出,
中等人交换,
下等人索取;

上等人有能力没脾气,
中等人有脾气有能力,
下等人没能力有脾气;

上等人信念坚定,
中等人相信自己,
下等人恐惧怀疑;

上等人付出行动,
中等人用脑算计,
下等人用情绪处理。

2014年10月22日 星期三

Here are 21 reasons God may allow more than you can bear

So you will rely on him. 1 Peter 5:7
So you will call on him. Acts 17:26-27
So you have no choice but him. John 15:5
So he can tell us things we wouldn’t know otherwise. Jeremiah 33:3
So he can be gracious to you. Isaiah 30:18
So he can show his kindness and compassion. Lamentations 3:21-24
So he can restore your soul. Psalm 23:3

So he can demonstrate his strength. 2 Corinthians 12:9
So you will trust in Jesus — and the Father. John 14:1.
So you can produce character and hope. Romans 5:3-5
So he can keep us from being self-reliant 2 Corinthians 12:7
So he can discipline his children. Hebrews 12:6-7
So God’s power is revealed. 2 Corinthians 4:7
So he can show our need for salvation. Psalm 119:67

So he can comfort us. 2 Corinthians 1:3-4
So we can learn to comfort others. 2 Corinthians 1:3-4
So he can reveal his unseen workings. Psalm 77:19
So he can demonstrate how all things work for an eventual good. Romans 8:28
So the Gospel might be proclaimed. Philippians 1:12-13
So he can draw prodigals home. Luke 15:17
So he can build character and hope. Romans 5:3-4

Don’t believe the lie. God will allow more on you than you can bear — alone.
You and I need him for our every breath.

2014年10月21日 星期二

十個死士 !

为什么成功的路上不拥挤?

因为成功路上:

1.光说不做死一批
2.逢年过节死一批
3.天气太热死一批
4.天气太冷死一批
5.亲人打击死一批
6.朋友嘲笑死一批
7.自己乱搞死一批
8.不去学习死一批
9.死不改变死一批
10.自以为是死一批。

能坚持下来的剩者为王!@北京华夏管理学院

2014年10月18日 星期六

水真不水啊!

你高,我便退去,决不淹没你的优点;
你低,我便涌来,决不暴露你的缺陷;
你动,我便随行,决不撇下你的孤单;
你静,我便长守,决不打扰你的安宁;
你热,我便沸腾,决不妨碍你的热情;
你冷,我便凝固,决不漠视你的寒冷。

如水人生!早安!

財富

阅读是与历史上的伟大灵魂交谈,借此把人类创造的精神财富“占为己有”。

写作是与自己的灵魂交谈,借此把外在的生命经历转变成内在的心灵财富。

信仰是与心中的上帝交谈,借此积聚“天上的财富”。

这是人生不可缺少的三种交谈,而这三种交谈都是在独处中进行的。—— 周国平

2014年10月16日 星期四

知足常乐,幸福永远 !

钱财就象雨水
        没有会渴死,多了会淹死;

工作就像爱人
        虽然经常烦恼,但没有会更烦恼;

兴趣就像情人
        虽然激情燃烧,但解决不了温饱;

爱人就像布衣
        虽不美丽,但能挡风遮体;

情人就像内衣
        虽然美丽,但不能穿出去;

朋友就像雨衣
        就算晴天想不起,雨季也会陪伴你。

2014年10月15日 星期三

天海夢淚

其实天很蓝,阴云总要散;
其实海不宽,彼岸连此岸;
其实梦很浅,万物皆自然;
其实泪也甜,当你心如愿。

影响我一生的四句话 --季羡林

陈寅恪所言:“独立之精神,自由之精神”;
胡    适所言:“大胆假设,小心求证”;
梁漱溟所言:“三军可夺帅也,匹夫不可夺志也”;
马寅初所言:“宁为玉碎,不为瓦全,宁明而死,不默而生。

2014年10月12日 星期日

不錯理念

1.做人:先站住,再站高。
2.规划:先成长,再成功。
3.学习:先记录,再记忆。
4.职场:先升值,再升职。
5.沟通:先求同,再求异。
6.人际:先交流,再交心。
7.执行:先完成,再完美。
8.创新:先仿造,再创造。

人生最怕的九件事

1.知人不必言尽,留些口德;
2.责人不必苛尽,留些肚量;
3.才能不必傲尽,留些内涵;
4.锋芒不必露尽,留些深敛;
5.有功不必邀尽,留些谦让;
6.得理不必争尽,留些宽容;
7.得宠不必恃尽,留些后路;
8.富贵不必享尽,留些福泽;
9.凡事不必做尽,留些余德。@读解人生

批評不必黑盡,留白是德 !     @姚謙123

2014年10月10日 星期五

八大人際定律 !

首因效應:45秒就能定終身
成敗定律:“蠢萌”的人受歡迎
寬容定律:越親密,暴露越徹底

剩下五個定律

風雨定律:感情經得起風雨
方圓定律:經常拒絕別人留下棱角太分明印象
評價定律:別因過分在乎別人評價封閉自己
餡餅定律:當天上掉下餡餅時,誘惑背後可能藏著威脅
眼淚定律:在傷口落淚撒鹽效果一樣。

2014年10月9日 星期四

有三种东西必須

有三种东西必须控制:情绪、语气和行为;
有三种东西必须思考:生命、死亡和永恒;
有三种东西必须摒弃:罪恶、贪婪和背叛;
有三种东西必须避免:懒惰、野蛮和嘲讽;
有三种东西必须挽救:信仰、和平和快乐;
有三种东西必须尊敬:宗教、自尊和仁慈。@北京华夏管理学院

有三种东西必须操練:禱告、聆聽、等候。@姚謙123

2014年10月7日 星期二

7 DISAPPOINTING REASONS PEOPLE LEAVE A CHURCH Ron Edmondson

One disappointment I have had in ministry is watching people come to church, get excited for a time, then disappear. You spend energy and heart on people, grow to love them and get excited about them, and suddenly they are nowhere to be found.

The biggest disappointment is not people who transfer to another church. I’m okay with that if it helps them better grow in their relationship with Christ. I’m talking about people who quit going to church altogether. They are in one day — out the next.

What happens to them? Why do they leave?

I’ve found there are often similar reasons that are repeated continuously. Perhaps you have seen this too.

Here are 7 reasons people disappear from church:

Burnout - These people came out of the gate too strong in the church. They showed up, got excited, and signed up for everything. They got so busy doing church they failed to enjoy being the church.

Injury - People inside the church can be cruel. I hate when that happens, but it’s true. These people experienced some of those people and they couldn’t move past it.

Distractions - These people got distracted by seemingly good things. They were playing travel ball, loving the fast life, traveling every weekend. Over time, their lifestyle of attending became the habit of not attending.

Life change – These people had a lifestyle change, such as divorce or remarriage — or they moved to a new community — and never reconnected with a church.

Mistakes - These people messed up! They made a mistake that may be public — or at least they feel that it will be known — and the place that should dispense grace appears either refuses it or they feel that it would. Many times when a person feels that way it is more perception than reality, but the way a person feels about themselves may determine whether they remain committed to church.

Power struggle – These people had an agenda. They were pursuing an issue — or a position — and when their demands weren’t met and they couldn’t overpower the system, they left.

Lack of connection – These people never connected with others on a deeper level. As a result, they never felt really a “part” of the church.

Pastors, have you experienced these while walking with people in ministry? How do you address these issues?

Obviously, we need to do all we can to help people become disciples. Knowing why they leave may be helpful. We can’t address some of these issues — maybe most — much of this is out of our control. But, the more we understand, the more we can help people as they experience these.

I think there is also a word here to the one who has disappeared or is on the verge. Beware. If you feel the need for the church in your life — or if you understand the biblical mandate to be a part of a body of believers — then guard your heart for these. And, help us know how to be a better church. In fact, come help us be a better church. Here’s one pastor (and, I know so many others) who is listening.

What other reasons would you add to my list?

2014年10月6日 星期一

成熟 !

成熟,不是你懂得了多少大道理,而是理解了更多小矛盾;
成熟,不是你结交了多少相投的人,而是接纳了更多不合的人;
成熟,不是你可以从事伟大的事,而是可以专心卑微的事;
成熟,不是你可以改变世界,而是可以改变自己;
成熟,不是你发现自己多聪明,而是知道了自己多愚蠢。@1句实话

成熟,不是抄錄了多少微博精句,而是內化了更多名句作出創意新句 !@姚謙123

先再

①做人:先站住,再站高。
②规划:先成长,再成功。
③学习:先记录,再记忆。
④职场:先升值,再升职。
⑤沟通:先求同,再求异。
⑥人际:先交流,再交心。
⑦执行:先完成,再完美……!

直面困难能寻求转机,
不惧困难能把握时机;
克服困难能获得良机,
解决困难能化解危机。

2014年10月1日 星期三

得與不

  1. 看得见的是手势,看不见的是手段;
  2. 测得出的叫智商,测不出的叫智慧;
  3. 量得出的叫温度,量不出的叫温暖;
  4. 写得出的是文章,写不出的是文化;
  5. 说得出的叫苦恼,说不出的是苦衷;
  6. 叫得出的是价格,叫不出的是价值;
  7. 读得到的是内容,读不到的是内幕;
  8. 撑得大的是肚皮,撑不大的是肚量!

10大积极人生观

  1. 宽容是一种境界,
  2. 忍让是一着妙棋;
  3. 吃亏是一种美德,
  4. 谦和是一份含蓄;
  5. 冷静是一种良药,
  6. 沉稳是一副功力;
  7. 权色是一种诱饵,
  8. 挥霍是一腔贪欲;
  9. 利禄是一种毒品,
  10. 阉割是一类奴婢;
  11. 嫉妒是一种冷箭,
  12. 寡欲是一脉神奇;
  13. 追求是一种动力,
  14. 行善是一次储蓄;
  15. 挫折是一种磨练,
  16. 成就是一生努力。