2013年10月31日 星期四

《夜归》

皓月当空如昼天,枯树秃枝小鸟欢。风平浪静帆上卷,孤舟一叶桨声远。//@姚謙123: 美圖誠句 !
《夜归》:皓月当空如昼天,枯树秃枝小鸟欢。风平浪静帆上卷,孤舟一叶桨声远。 [月亮][微风][微风][微风] 。(网络图片,感谢原创作者)。

2013年10月29日 星期二

The Five Characteristics of Movements

By Ryan Shaw

It is common to hear about “movements” today. We may refer to our campus ministry, local church network or denomination as a movement.

We want to see “movements to Christ” among unreached people groups and rapid reproducing “church planting movements” where today there are few disciples. Our hearts long for a “movement” across the body of Christ prioritizing the great commission as it was intended.

God is building true movements around the world but we need to understand what they are. As we are partnering with God in the “mission movement” it is essential to grasp what it means to see “the great commission” as a movement.

A professor of mine from Fuller Theological Seminary, Dr. Bobby Clinton, has studied movements for many years. He not only studies Christian movements, but secular movements, religious movements of all kinds, historical movements, social movements, etc.

His conclusion is that movements have similar characteristics no matter their type. There are commonalities that exist whether the movements surround an ideology or a ministry.

There are five common commitments made on the part of those involved in a movement. These apply the same to a movement like communism or a movement seeking to outlaw abortion.

We want to understand and embrace these five commitments as we work to see the “mission movement” developed, matured and spread across the body of Christ globally.

Clinton defines a movement as a “groundswell of people committed to a person or ideals and characterized by the following important commitments.”

1) Commitment to Personal Involvement
2) Commitment to Persuade Others to Join
3) Commitment to the Beliefs and Ideals of the Movement
4) Commitment to Participate In a Non-Bureaucratic, Cell-Group Organization
5) Commitment to Endure Opposition and Misunderstanding

The movement toward seeing the fulfillment of the great commission in this generation requires each of these five commitments being internalized by those pursuing it. This means prioritizing the great commission to its rightful place and being committed as an active voice on its behalf.

你的習慣

奧古斯丁說:“壞習慣不加以抑制,不久它就會變成你生活上的必需品了。”

2013年10月28日 星期一

團隊管理必備八種能力

1、親和力。親和即人脈
2、決斷力。果斷決策,拒絕猶豫。
3、執行力。執行是決策的接續。
4、創造力。把普通變成非凡。
5、前瞻力。洞悉先機,引領潮流。
6、凝聚力。像磁石凝聚進取的團隊。
7、動員力。做那些看似不可能做到的事。
8、影響力。超越時間和空間。

2013年10月25日 星期五

做人十心機

  1. 做人不能太單純,適度偽裝自己
  2. 凡事留餘地,要留退路
  3. 話不說絕,口無遮攔難成大事
  4. 成熟而不世故
  5. 心態好,想得開活得不累
  6. 沒事不惹事,來事不怕事
  7. 不可少二禮:禮儀與禮物
  8. 人在江湖飄,防挨朋友刀
  9. 偶爾"勢利眼" 尋可靠夥伴
  10. 放下面子來做人

最高境界

宗教的最高境界是無常;
耶教的最高境界是無罪;
儒教的最高境界是無惡;
道教的最高境界是無為;
佛教的最高境界是無我;
法家的最高境界是無恥;
哲學的最高境界是無言;
政治的最高境界是無情;
音樂的最高境界是無詞;
事業的最高境界是無悔;
愛情的最高境界是無怨;
處世的最高境界是無名;
幸福的最高境界是無求;
個人的最高境界是無債;
人生的最高境界是無欲。

2013年10月24日 星期四

低調:是態度,也是智慧

1.別人持才自傲,你卻虛懷若谷。
2.別人賣弄口才,你卻多思慎言。
3.別人拼命外顯,你卻韜光養晦。
4.別人你鬥我爭,你卻遠離是非。
5.別人直來直去,你卻融方於圓。
6.別人爭破頭顱,你卻以退為進。
7.別人拿放不起,你卻能屈能伸。
8.別人趾高氣揚,你卻不顯不炫。
9.別人水銀燈下,你卻安坐蔭下。
10.別人盡享吹捧,你卻自在怡然。

【人生感悟】涵养 @紫默铭

  1. 使人严肃而不孤僻,
  2. 使人活泼而不放浪,
  3. 使人稳重而不呆板,
  4. 使人热情而不轻狂,
  5. 使人沉着而不寡言,
  6. 使人和气而不盲从。每个人都是塑造自己的工程师。
涵养,不是束缚,而是解放。人活一天就得做一天人,担一天忧,尽一天责;
就得讲一天内涵和修养。謝謝 !

我願從你處習得還有,涵養,
  1. 使人謙卑而不驕縱,
  2. 使人自信而不鋒芒。

Re: 2013年10月14日至18日熱線話題

主的話語是亮光,照亮我方向;
主的話語是明燈,指引我前行;
主的話語是祝福,恩典永同住;
主的話語是嗎哪,供養不缺乏;
主的話語是力量,軟弱變堅強;
主的話語是幫助,帶我走正路;
主的話語常記心,寶貝如精金;
主的話語常思想,生活有希望;
主的話語如活水,源源不斷淌;
主的話語我最愛,一生不偏離。

常常喜樂:因為喜樂的心乃是良藥,

不住禱告:因為主說你們禱告,無論求什麼,只要信,就必得著;你們祈求,就尋見,叩門,就給你們開門。

凡事謝恩:因為萬事互相效力,叫愛神的人得益處。

敬虔加上知足的心便是大利:因為主說:我總不撇下你,也不丟棄你。人賺得全世界,喪失了生命又有什麼益處呢。

當將你的憂慮卸給神,因為祂顧念你們:主告訴我們:“應當一無掛慮,凡事藉著禱告、祈求和感謝,將你們所要的告訴神,神所賜出人意外的平安,必在基督耶穌裡保守你們的心懷意念”。

肉體雖然毀壞,內心卻一天新似一天:主說:“這至暫至輕的苦楚,是為了成就將來永遠無比的榮耀。等你們受苦難之後,必要親自成全你們,堅固你們,賜力量給你們。”你不要害怕,因為我與你同在,不要驚惶,因為我是你的神,我必堅固你,我必幫助你,我必用公義的右手扶持你。

凡勞苦擔重擔的人,到我這裡來,我就使你們得安息(請注意這裡的“就”字,是肯定句,是神的保證):你不要害怕,因為我與你同在,不要驚惶,因為我是你的神,我必堅固你,我必幫助你,我必用公義的右手扶持你。

得救是本乎恩,也因著信:人非有信,就不能得神的喜悅,因為凡到神面前來的人,必須信有神,且信祂賞賜那尋求祂的人。因為神的義正在這福音上顯明出來,這義是本於信,以致於信,義人必因信得生。

不要為明天憂慮,因為明天自有明天的憂慮,一天的難處一天當就夠了:因為明天要生何事我們不知道,我們不過是一片雲霧,出現少時就不見了。

要專心依賴耶和華,在你所行的事上都是要認定祂,祂必指引你的路:因為敬畏耶和華是智慧的開端,認識至聖者就是聰明。

不可貪戀別人的錢財,要以自己的有的為知足:因為錢財也會長上翅膀,如鷹向天飛去。

主的話語每一句都帶著能力、應許和祝福,但是用心的人才能體會到,感謝主的話一直陪伴我,帶領我,指引我前行的方向。

處世格言

人之間,莫相欺; 多陽光,少詭計;
不結怨,不樹敵;平生事,靠自己;
熱問題,冷處理;過去事,悔無益;
眼前事,莫攀比;得到的,可失去;
失去的,由它去;得誌時,不忘形;
失意時,別戚戚;聽天命,盡人力;
放得下,拿得起;能容人,能克已;​​
不貪心,淡名利;讀好書,明事理。
你一言,我一語,很快樂,作知己 !

真真实实,踏踏实实!@杨牧师

能活得真真实实,是一种勇敢。

我们都害怕受伤,于是找到了一个自认能很好保护自己的“武器”——面具。
它似乎令我们在社会中越来越强大、在教会中越来越“属灵”,

只有“刚强”与“完美”,以为这样就不会受伤。

只是却不知,它也让自己迷了路——
无论人生,还是信仰——累!

真真实实,才有踏踏实实!

少時孩童取玩具,
青年學徒用工具,
成年眾人戴面具,
死放棺中似櫥具。       人生早些醒來啊 ! @ 姚謙

合算人生

正常而言,無論體力、財力、智力,要發揮的

60歲前也應已好好發揮;(法定也退休喇!)
60歲後已遞減了;更何況

「人生無常」,先知先覺下,之後也不應太大期望為上。
---合算人生(姚慶權)

(+) 加多遺產,
(-) 減少遺憾,
(x) 乘機順勢,
(÷) 除障成長。

告別平庸10 簡單方法

1. 每天堅持讀書1小時
2. 堅持提升專業,成為單位專業權威
3. 戰勝兩個壞毛病——拖延與抱怨
4. 先從形像上改變,提升你的自信
5. 時常反省自己,但不詆毀自己
6. 向優秀的人學習
7. 堅持早睡早起
8. 堅持體育鍛煉
9. 保持微笑
10. 幫助他人。每天一點兒正能量與您同行……

人生領悟 !

1.看懂一件事,你就長大了。
2.看清一件事,你就開竅了。
3.看破一件事,你就理性了。
4.看透一件事,你就成熟了。
5.看穿一件事,你就到頭了。
6.看淡一件事,你就放下了。
7.看明一件事,你就聰明了。
8.看好一件事,你就成功了。
9.看過一件事,你就經歷了。

短暫的人生

活在廢舊的時光裡,是對今天的不禮貌,
珍惜今天的生活,就是對明天最好的尊重;
不要把今天只是當成飛向明天的跳板,
更不要背著昨天追趕明天而忘了今天的生活;

短暫的人生,誰都沒有資格奢侈到可以浪費今天的生活。

常用手機帶來7大傷害

英國《每日郵報》刊文總結手機的7大危害

①損傷視力:長時間盯著手機會導致眼睛乾澀,進而誘發炎症
②擠壓脊柱
③下巴變形:過度使用會導致下巴輪廓變形
④誘發皮疹
⑤傷及聽力
⑥干擾睡眠
⑦影響社交

三句話 --- 加上最後一句 !

人安茅屋静,心淡世路平;相由心生,境由心造;
同一件事,想开了是天堂,想不开就是地狱。
无言欣喜,只因情到深处;

一句心疼,可以安慰沉默背后的悲痛;
一份懂得,更让心灵有了慰藉的港口。

幸福的眼泪总是最真实,幸福的笑容总是最动人。

最长久的拥有是珍惜,
最温暖的感觉是幸福。  @诗韵铭录

最可愛的領受是欣賞 !

日常幸福时刻表@ 北京华夏管理学院

①每天至少翻5页书
②跑30分钟步
③对1个陌生人微笑
④赞美1个人
⑤每月至少有1个进步
⑥每半年旅行1次
⑦每年做1次体检
⑧至少有1个爱好让你契而不舍
⑨至少有1个梦想变成现实
⑨至少有一個好友聽你的心底話

2013年10月23日 星期三

将要被社会淘汰的8 种人

1.八小时之外不学习的人
2.对新生事物反应迟钝的人
3.仅靠个人能力单打独斗的人
4.玻璃心,心理脆弱容易受伤害的人
5.技能单一没有特长的人
6.计较眼前目光短浅的人
7.情商低下的人
8.观念落后知识陈旧的人                 @思想聚焦

有些東西比

有些東西比金錢好,比如健康;
有些東西比知識好,比如修養;
有些東西比地位好,比如品位;
有些東西比榮耀好,比如口碑;
有些東西比財富好,比如朋友;
有些東西比交情好,比如親情;
有些東西比成功好,比如成長。@玫琳凱美麗到家

2013年10月22日 星期二

生活必備十個要領

生命不在年齡,貴在心理年輕;
生活不在金錢,貴在怡樂心情;
裝扮不在時尚,貴在秀外慧中;
膳食不在多寡,貴在營養均衡;
居室不在大小,貴在寬闊心胸;
養生不在冬夏,貴在理肌防病;
情趣不在雅俗,貴在心靈提升;
朋友不在多少,貴在真情相擁;
鍛煉不在朝暮,貴在持之以恆。
終極不在知悉,貴在安然見主。

【人生从一数到五】@森垚龚伟利 加上六

一个中心:
一切以健康为中心。

两个基本点:
遇事潇洒点,看世糊涂点。

三个忘记:
忘记年龄,忘记过去,忘记恩怨。

四个要:
要唱,要跳,要笑,要有气质。

五个不能:
不能饿了才吃,不能渴了才喝,不能困了才睡,不能累了才歇,不能病了才检查。

六個禱告 : 
禱告靈性復興、禱告全家信主、禱告青年愛主,禱告教會熱心、禱告聖靈感動、禱告主快回來 !

阿門

處、錯、福、樂、能、善@親情文摘

人生三處:發現長處、理解難處、不忘好處。
人生三錯:追求完美、責備求全、苛求圓滿。
人生三福:平安是福、健康是福、吃虧是福。
人生三樂:知足常樂、自得其樂、助人為樂。
人生三能:勤能補拙、儉能養廉、靜能生悟。
人生三善:善待他人、善解人意、善始善終。

使人感動的不是言詞,而是真誠 !

使人成熟的不是歲月,而是經歷;
使人可愛的不是美麗,而是良善;
使人快樂的不是錢財,而是知足;
使人寬廣的不是胸圍,而是肚量;
使人幸福的不是獲得,而是施捨;
使人富足的不是權勢,而是信仰;
使人悔改的不是刑罰,而是恩典;
使人稱義的不是行為,而是信心;
使人聖潔的不是自己,而是耶穌。           @迷羊心

2013年10月21日 星期一

微笑的10个价值

上帝的十誡前四條是人與神關係,
後六條是人與人關係。

這裡微笑前四條是人與人關係,
後六條是人與健康關係。                 很有意思啊 !

①人缘好
②朋友多
②易成功
④威信高:       这样的人易给人留下好印象

⑤心脏好:      微笑时心脏和全身负担最轻
⑥胃健康:      人的消化系统与心情密切相连
⑦关节好:      心情会影响关节润滑能力
⑧更美丽:      长期微笑可刻画成面部表情
⑨衰老慢:      微笑让面部肌肉承受最小压力
⑩长开心:      能够给人带来好情绪。              北京华夏管理学院

每天的禱告 My daily prayer

主我心愛祢
我渴望活在祢的懷裡
每天與祢同在
享受祢的大愛

醫治我受傷的心靈
改變我原有的生命

引導我當走的路
今天的服事求祢托住

哦主啊求祢改變我
心思意念願祢來雕琢
使我能更加像祢
帶著耶穌的香氣

哦主啊求祢吸引我
帶我進入祢聖潔居所

讓我今天為祢活
完全獻上為活祭
奉獻一生跟隨祢

不抱怨的心靈祈禱學 !

不要抱怨世界的黑暗,因为我们是光明之子;
不要抱怨社会的腐败,因为我们是防腐的盐;
不要抱怨苦难的遭遇,因为这是反面的祝福;
不要抱怨重担的难当,因为这是省察的空间;
不要抱怨別人的计较,因为这是爱心的扩张;
不要抱怨逆境的袭击,因为这是生命的雕琢;
不要抱怨十架的痛苦,因为这是荣耀的代表。@迷羊心

2013年10月18日 星期五

很有味道的當然 !

紫默銘 【感悟人生】

你給生活意境,生活也就給你風景。
  1. 有一種境界叫超然
  2. 有一種達觀叫了然
  3. 有一種天真叫自然
  4. 有一種態度叫悠然
  5. 有一種成就叫斐然
  6. 有一種繁盛叫蔚然
  7. 有一種愉悅叫欣然
  8. 有一種釋懷叫惠然
而我要的那種幸福,是淡然。《今日語錄》

2013年10月16日 星期三

《讓他們去天堂修理柵欄》

東蕩子最後詩《讓他們去天堂修理柵欄》2013年10月6日

全詩如下:

魚池是危險的,堤壩在分崩離析
小心點,不要喊,不要驚擾
走遠,或者過來

修理工喜歡庭院裡的生活
讓他們去天堂修理柵欄吧

那裡,有一根木條的確已斷裂


東蕩子有首著名詩 叫《朋友》,
寫到 “要在火焰中盜取海水”。

東蕩子本名吳波
生於洞庭湖邊的東盪村,
父親是木匠,後來寫詩,就以東盪村作筆名

東蕩子詩歌裡有大量詩作寫到死亡
貼在博客裡最後一詩《容器請在這裡輸入標題  》和
最後《讓他們去天堂修理柵欄》似乎驚奇地暗示自己結局!

2013年10月11日下午4時許 在看房路上
突然心肌梗塞不幸去世,享年49歲。

2013年10月15日 星期二

不出10年会后悔的10件事

人生有多少個十年 ?
後悔是大事抑小事 ?
時間不會再來 !

今天作決定 !

1、为了取悦他人戴着面具生活;
2、让别人来打造你的梦想;
3、和负面情绪的人为伴;
4、自私任性;
5、拒绝改变和成长;
6、遇到困难轻言放弃。
7、过于紧张每一件小事。
8、太容易满足。
9、无止境地拖延。
10、懒惰无力。

2013年10月14日 星期一

时间残忍,珍惜眼前人

微博上很火一句话:

“你所浪费的今天,是昨天死去的人奢望的明天。
你所厌恶的现在,是未来的你回不去的曾经。

Bud & Bloom - Helen Parry

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, a new creation has come: the old has gone, the new is here.
2 Corinthians 5:17

The gospel offers us a new life. 
But first we have to face up to our dissatisfaction with the old one. It is this dissatisfaction that leads to repentance and faith in Christ. As we seek to understand the implications of that, we may hold on to 2 Corinthians 5:17. The difficulty with this verse, however, lies in its translation. The Greek text says simply: ‘If anyone is in Christ – new creation.’ Many translations render this: ‘he (or she) is a new creation.’ But this, for me, reactivates my old dissatisfaction. I am still prone to the same tendencies and weaknesses that led me to Christ in the first place. So in what sense can I believe that I have a new life?

New creation has biblical resonances far beyond the individual.
The wonderful promises in Isaiah of deliverance from exile find their climax in the vision of chapter 65: ‘See, I will create new heavens and a new earth’ (65:17). And in a difference context, in his letter to the Galatians (6:15), Paul declares that ‘what counts is new creation’.

Christ’s redemptive work
Has inaugurated the new creation that will, of course, be consummated on his return (Revelation 21:1-5). So, as we put our faith in Christ, we step, so to speak, into that new creation, and become a part of it. Yes, the creation still groans (Romans 8:22) and so do we (2 Corinthians 5:2), but it is the groaning of eager expectation, confidence and faith.

I am not perfect, but nor am I ‘just the same old me’. 
The dissatisfaction I now experience is not the dissatisfaction of futility and hopelessness
but of aspiration and of possibility.

2013年10月13日 星期日

<共與新葡>

Steve 送來詩詞,我略作改動成如下:

恩沛秋日樂清晨,
兒室全家傳福音,
共與新葡信靠主,
全心全意育新生。

人生須有四得

即沉得住氣,變得了臉,彎得下腰,抬得起頭。

沉得住氣,是事業的開始;沉得住氣,是事業成熟的標誌;
變得了臉,是胸怀大度的表現,是人生智慧的象徵;
彎得下腰,告訴我們要處世低調,要學會忍耐;
抬得起頭,是少年壯志不言愁的激烈情懷,也是君子心底坦蕩蕩的優雅自信。

@徐昕 @米瑞蓉

告別平庸的10種簡單方法

1、每天堅持讀書1小時;
2、堅持提升專業,成為單位專業權威;
3、戰勝兩個壞毛病——拖延與抱怨;
4、先從形像上改變,提升你的自信;
5、時常反省自己,但不詆毀自己;
6、向優秀的人學習;
7、堅持早睡早起;
8、堅持體育鍛煉;
9、保持微笑;
10、幫助他人。

2013年10月11日 星期五

太久

  1. 跪的太久,忘記了站立。
  2. 信的太久,忘記了質疑。
  3. 等的太​​久,忘記了期盼。
  4. 苦的太久,忘記了幸福。
  5. 壓的太久,忘記了脊梁。
  6. 哭的太久,忘記了說話。
  7. 孬的太久,忘記了反抗。
  8. 蠢的太久,忘記了生活。
  9. 豬的太久,忘記了做人。
  10. 奴的太久,忘記了自由。
  11. 圈的太久,忘記了世界。
  12. 夢的太久,忘記了出發!

2013年10月10日 星期四

You raise me up… To more than I can be. 你鼓舞了我...讓我能超越自己。

歌手:Josh Groban     專輯:Closer

When I am down and, oh my soul, so weary;
當我失落的時候,噢,我的靈魂,感到多麽的疲倦;
When troubles come and my heart burdened be;
當有困難時,我的心背負著重擔,
Then, I am still and wait here in the silence,
然後,我會在寂靜中等待,
Until you come and sit awhile with me.
直到你的到來,並與我小坐片刻。
You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
你鼓舞了我,所以我能站在群山頂端;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
你鼓舞了我,讓我能走過狂風暴雨的海;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
當我靠在你的肩上時,我是堅強的;
You raise me up… To more than I can be.
你鼓舞了我...讓我能超越自己。
You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
你鼓舞了我,所以我能站在群山頂端;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
你鼓舞了我,讓我能走過狂風暴雨的海;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
當我靠在你的肩上時,我是堅強的;
You raise me up… To more than I can be.
你鼓舞了我...讓我能超越自己。
There is no life – no life without its hunger;
沒有一個生命 -- 沒有生命是沒有渴求的;
Each restless heart beats so imperfectly;
每個繹動的心能夠跳動得那麽地完美;
But when you come and I am filled with wonder,
但是當你來臨的時候,我充滿了驚奇,
Sometimes, I think I glimpse eternity.
有時候,我覺得我看到了永遠。
You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
你鼓舞了我,所以我能站在群山頂端;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
你鼓舞了我,讓我能走過狂風暴雨的海;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
當我靠在你的肩上時,我是堅強的;
You raise me up… To more than I can be.
你鼓舞了我...讓我能超越自己。
You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
你鼓舞了我,所以我能站在群山頂端;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
你鼓舞了我,讓我能走過狂風暴雨的海;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
當我靠在你的肩上時,我是堅強的;
You raise me up… To more than I can be.
你鼓舞了我...讓我能超越自己。
You raise me up… To more than I can be.
你鼓舞了我...讓我能超越自己。

曾國藩人生信條

①小人專望人恩,恩過不感;君子不受人恩,受則難忘。

②多思不若養志,多言不若守靜,多才不若蓄德。

③水道曲折,立岸者見而操舟者迷;棋勢勝負,對奕者惑而傍觀者審。

④倚富者貧,倚貴者賤,倚強者弱,倚巧者拙。

⑤食能止飢,飲能止渴,畏能止禍,足能止貪。

--人生智慧@伊能靜 --

曾國藩四句遺囑

曾國藩因為四句遺囑使後代沒出一個敗家子,
曾氏家族打破“盛不過三代”魔咒,而曾國藩“四條遺囑”起了決定性作用:

一 是慎獨則心里平靜。

二 是主敬則身體強健。

三 是追求仁愛則人高興。

四 是參加勞動則鬼神也敬重。             真可謂句句蘊含人生哲理。

静坐常思己过

静坐常思己过,闲谈莫论人非。
能受苦乃为志士,肯吃亏不是痴人。
敬君子方显有德,怕小人不算无能。
退一步天高地阔,让三分心平气和。
进步需思退步,若着手先虑放手。
如得意不宜重往,凡做事应有余步。
持黄金为珍贵,知安乐方值千金。
切勿贪意外之财,知足者人心常乐。
若能以此去处事,一生安乐任逍遥。

    猶太人的智慧

    1、在比自己有智慧的人面前洗耳恭聽
    2、別人說話不打岔
    3、經過思考再予以答
    4、問話不離本題
    5、行事按照輕重緩急
    6、不知道的事就回答不知
    7、永遠尊重事實,信奉真理

    2013年10月8日 星期二

    中國國學至深之道

    1、勢不可使盡,若用盡,禍一定來;
    2、福不可享盡,若享盡,緣份必斷;
    3、規矩不可行盡,若行盡,會予人麻煩;
    4、好話不可說盡,若說盡,則流於平淡;

    5、永遠保持不及、求缺的境界,方可做到大智若愚、持盈保泰!

    Ten Things about Preaching by Adam Thomas

    I recently realized something that astounds me: this summer I passed the century mark for sermons preached. Since my first incoherent ramblings about the Letter to the Hebrews during a Homiletics class in seminary to the sermon I'm giving this Sunday, the Holy Spirit (along with my mentors and parishioners) have taught me so much about the craft of preaching. As I look toward the horizon of my next hundred sermons, I'd like to share with you ten things I've learned during the first hundred.
    1. More than anything, preaching a sermon is an act of trust. I have discovered that the sermons I think are home runs don't generate nearly as much “press” as the ones that I think are only okay. But every time I give what I think is a mediocre sermon, multiple people come up to me afterwards and tell me how much it spoke to them. Could this possibly be because I decided I needed to trust God more in the preaching of the mediocre sermon than the home run? And in that act of trust I was more open to the movement of the Holy Spirit during delivery? And in that openness I connected more intimately with my listeners? If so, I can conclude one of two things: either I can strive to write only mediocre sermons (nope!), or I can strive to find the place of openness and trust each time I mount the steps to the pulpit. As I move into my next hundred sermons, I ask God to bless me with an ability to trust God's movement that is independent of my perceived skill.
    2. Preaching is not about showing expertise. I learned this lesson thanks to theRev. Dr. David Lose and the Biblical Preaching Project I participated in at Luther Seminary in St. Paul. Showing yourself to be an “expert” in the pulpit might seem like a good thing to do; after all, your listeners want to know that you know what you’re talking about. But be careful taking this too far. If you actively try to demonstrate your expertise or your fluency with biblical interpretation and theology (or worse, discipleship), then you run the very real risk of causing a complete disconnect between yourself and your listeners. Your demonstration will reinforce in their minds that they aren’t good enough or knowledgeable enough to study the Bible or think theologically (or worse, be disciples). It is not your job as the preacher to be the rock that they hang their faith on. (That’s someone else’s job and he’s way more important than you.) If you’ve been in a congregation long enough, they’ll know you know what you’re talking about. They’ll trust you. Use this trust to show your own vulnerability, the shaky times you’ve had, the moments when God surprised you from an unexpected trajectory. Not displaying expertise does not mean not having any. It just means that it shouldn’t be the takeaway from the sermon. Be vulnerable and you will connect even more with God and with the people.
    3. The best sermons are about exactly one thing. I learned this the first month of college when my first three-page paper was returned to me without a grade and the words “too many ideas” scrawled in barely legible professor-script. That semester, Dr. Huber taught me the value of presenting one thought and developing it deeply. Moving this practice to preaching is the best advice I can give. Whether your sermons are ten minutes like mine or forty minutes like the ones my in-laws hear every Sunday, the sermon should still be about one thing. Every sentence should support the main thought. If it doesn’t, cut it. Your listeners will stay with you, and you’ll have more room to say what you need to say. Keeping your sermon to exactly one thing will protect you from the dreaded “greatest hits” sermon; that is, a sermon which says everything a passage of scripture could be about but expands on none of them. Pick an idea and work with it. “Turn the crystal,” to quote my Homiletics professor. After all, you’ll get another crack at the readings in three years.
    4. The more specific the more universal. This might seem antithetical, but I assure you it’s not. If your sermon is full of generalities or ideas with no examples to back them up, then your words are more likely to sail over the heads of your listeners. So be specific. Illustrate your point with an example that could very well happen to some of your listeners. Even if the example doesn’t hit home, it will hit closer to home than a bland generalization ever will. For example, a few weeks ago I preached about God finding us (inspired by the parable of the lost sheep). At one point, I said this:
    “Perhaps you are holding your mother’s hand as she lies dying. She holds your hand back…until she doesn’t. You don’t think you have any more tears, but you are wrong. Your deep grief reveals not how deeply you loved her, but how deeply you love her, and you realize your love will never become a past tense thing. And God finds you in the continued connection between the living and the dead.”

    Preaching through real world examples helps connect to the listeners, but it also serves another important purpose. It gives listeners a model by which to reflect spiritually and theologically about their own experience. Modelling this practice from the pulpit is a good end in itself.
    5. Every sermon is about the preacher. You might not think that your sermon is about you because you never mention yourself, but every sermon is about the preacher, no matter the content. Even if you did only a minimal amount of self-reflection, every sermon springs from a mingling of prayer, study, examination, and experience. Oftentimes, my sermons will touch on something I’m wrestling with even if I don’t realize it’s on my mind. In the end, if the sermon doesn’t “preach” (in the sense of resonate) to the preacher, then it won’t preach to anyone else. That being said, I don’t advocate having the preacher be the “hero” of the sermon. Just remember that every sermon is about you whether you want it to be or not.
    6. Every sermon should be about the listener. The sermon might be about you, the preacher, but it should also be about the people you’re preaching to. The hardest group to whom to preach is a group you’ve never met before. Once you’ve been in a worshipping community for a while, your sermons will start resonating more and more because you will have gotten to know the people. You’ll know their particular struggles. You’ll know what they’re hungry for. You’ll know how to talk to them. Once you know your listeners, there’s no excuse for a “boilerplate” sermon. Hit them where they live. Offer them enough comfort in your words that they will accept your challenge. Offer them enough challenge so they can grow spiritually. But above all, offer them the Gospel in the way they are most likely to hear it. (That’s what Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John did, after all.)
    7. Every sermon should proclaim the Gospel. This one seems really obvious, but it’s harder to accomplish than you might think. I do not mean here that every sermon needs to be specifically about the lesson from the Gospel you read just before preaching. What I mean is that every sermon must proclaim the good news of the love of God made known in Jesus Christ our Lord. This good news might come in the form of encouragement or comfort or hope; it might come through pointing out God’s presence in the midst of challenging times; it might come from telling the story in a new, enlightening way. No matter from where you take your text, the Gospel can shine from it. As I said, however, it’s harder than you might think. I wrote a story sermononce that ended up being just a story. There was no sermon in it. But I didn’t notice until too late. When you’re done writing your sermon, look back at it, and ask the “Where’s the beef?” question. If you can’t find the “beef” then you’re not done.
    8. There's a difference between a sermon and preaching. A written sermon is like a musical score: the notes are there ready for the orchestra to play them, but until they put bow to string or lips to mouthpiece, the notes are just little black marks on paper. If written sermon is to musical score, then preaching is to making music. The preacher gives life to the words by speaking them. We call it a sermon “delivery” on purpose; God calls preachers to deliver the good news directly to where people “live and move and have their being,” just as the UPS guy delivers packages to your front door. This happens most successfully when spoken aloud. Not only that, but the preaching moment is sacred because during it the Holy Spirit rides the preacher’s breath to the listeners’ ears and down into their hearts.
    9. Preaching is theatre. Imagine two preachers have written the same sermon text. One reads it in a drowsy monotone. His head is down, and he’s giving off the general air that he just wants to get through it so he can get on with his day. There’s a good chance half the congregation is checking their smartphones. The other has the text in front of her, but she’s looking up way more than she’s looking down. Her voice rises and lowers in volume; she hammers some words and lets silences linger between thoughts so they can sink in. Perhaps she uses the pulpit as a prop or gestures with her hands at appropriate times. She is engaged in the preaching moment and her whole body is part of the delivery. There’s a good chance the smartphones are safely in pockets and purses. You can hear a pin drop. The congregation is hanging on every word. Delivery matters. I’m not telling you to try to win an Oscar every time you mount the pulpit; just remember that how you speak is just as important as what you say.
    10. Preaching is a gift. Have you ever stopped to think just how blessed you are to have an opportunity to proclaim God’s eternal presence, Christ’s love, and the Holy Spirit’s inspiration to a group of willing listeners week in and week out? The next time you are stuck in the middle of sermon preparation, think what a gift God has given you with this opportunity. Then remember God has also given you the gifts to preach the Gospel through words. Thank God for all the gifts in your life, and then get back to work using them.
    Those are ten of things I've learned about preaching during my first hundred sermons. I'm curious to know what you've learned, and I hope you'll use the comments below to share.

    南懷瑾:男人的氣質

    1. 臨危而不懼,
    2. 途窮而志存;
    3. 苦難能自立,
    4. 責任攬自身;
    5. 怨恨能德報,
    6. 美醜辯分明;
    7. 名利甘居後,
    8. 為理願馳騁;
    9. 仁厚納知己,
    10. 開明擴胸襟;
    11. 當機能立斷,
    12. 遇亂能慎行;
    13. 忍辱能負重,
    14. 堅忍能守恆;
    15. 臨弱可落淚,
    16. 對惡敢拼爭;
    17. 功高不自傲,
    18. 事後常反省;
    19. 舉止終如一,
    20. 立言必有行。

    經典句子

    1、天下難事,必起於易;天下大事,必做於細。
    2、太陽光大,父母恩大,君子量大,小人氣大。
    3、靜能製動,沉能製浮,寬能製褊,緩能製急。
    4、有才而性緩,定屬大才。有智而氣和,斯為大智。
    5、緩事宜急幹,敏則有功;急事宜緩辦,忙則多錯。
    6、大著肚皮容物,立定腳跟做人。

    世上最...

    世上最深最淺的東西是人的感情
    世上最寬最窄的東西是人的胸襟
    世上最遠最近的東西是人的眼睛
    世上最大最小的距離是人的心距
    世上最重最輕的東西是人的態度
    世上最美最醜的東西是人的心靈

    2013年10月1日 星期二

    If you want to be a change agent leader:

    You have to be willing to fail. - Not all change will work. You can strategize and plan, but change at some level involves the risk that it may not work. Are you prepared for that?

    You need to be able to withstand criticism. – Change invites pushback. Change changes things. (That’s deep, isn’t it?) Change is uncomfortable and people will tell you the degree of discomfort they are feeling. Sometimes in passionate…even mean ways. You’ll feel unpopular at times.
    You must evaluate and be willing to adjust accordingly. - You can’t be a change agent and equally be a control freak. You are leading people through sometimes muddy waters. You’ll need to solicit buy-in from others. You will need to collaborate. You’ll need to process the success rate of the change and recalibrate as needed.
    You have to outlast the opponents of change. – When the naysayers show up you’ll have to stand strong to the vision of change for which you believe is worth fighting. It will take longer than you hope it will at times and you’ll have to stand the test of time.
    You must think bigger than today. – Change is always going somewhere new. Always. So you have to be able to think about the options that aren’t currently on the table. You’ve got to think beyond now and even beyond the most immediate future. You have to look for what others can’t see, choose not to or are afraid to see (or admit).
    You have to challenge status quo. - That’s the kicker, isn’t it? You have to go against the way things are being done and the way things have always been done. We are talking about change. Get it? Change. That means something is changing. (Oh, such a deep post.) You have to move people from the center on which they’ve grounded themselves.
    You have to have a DNA in which to work that is conducive to change. – And here’s another kicker. Every church and every organization in which you are called to bring change isn’t wired for change. The fact is that some of those said churches and organizations are going to die…they’ll stall…perhaps for long periods…but they’ll eventually just fade away…and nothing you can say or do will encourage otherwise. In the end, you can’t lead people where they don’t want to go. The sooner you can learn that fact the quicker you can try to be a change agent where change will actually occur.
    Well, those are some hard realizations. I’ve studied and observed them by working with dozens of churches, businesses and non-profits and in the organizations and churches in which I have led.
    What have you seen as necessary criteria to be a change agent?

    山西徐姊妹留言

    有種生命的默契叫靈里相同,
    有種無言的幸福叫以馬內利,
    有種深深的思念叫彼此代禱,
    有種心靈的喜悅叫肢體相愛,
    有種美好的盼望叫基督再來。

    35岁前要做的事业准备

    1、学会本行业所需要的一切知识
    2、养成个人风格,20岁、30岁时可以不断尝试、改变,35岁必须明确
    3、感情生活方面平和安稳
    4、勇敢面对自己的长处和短处
    5、储备另谋生路的资本
    6、建立可依赖的人际关系网
    7、懂得挑选合适、并信任的人