I read from the web the following words for our 25th wedding anniversary today !
Silver Wedding Anniversary is a milestone-wedding anniversary. Spending a quarter of a century together calls in for a gala celebration.
Silver is definitely the symbolical gift for a silver jubilee. The occasion is special reflective of a life of unity and promise.
2009年8月31日 星期一
幽默
To succeed in life, you need three things: a wishbone, a backbone and a funnybone.
人生要成功,有三樣東西不可缺少:願望、毅力、幽默。Reba Mcentire
Humor is a rubber sword -- it allows you to make a point without drawing blood.
幽默是把橡皮造的劍:容許你刺中要害卻不流血。Mary Hirsch
人生要成功,有三樣東西不可缺少:願望、毅力、幽默。Reba Mcentire
Humor is a rubber sword -- it allows you to make a point without drawing blood.
幽默是把橡皮造的劍:容許你刺中要害卻不流血。Mary Hirsch
2009年8月30日 星期日
2009年8月15日 星期六
Trust-Building : 10 ways to bring back trust
I borrowed a book by Andrew Leigh on The secrets of success in management this afternoon and went to his mentioned website www.maynardleigh.co.uk to find the following ten rules on trust building :
Trust makes the quest for engagement achievable. Without it engagement shrivels and dies. To generate trust though depends on a steady accumulation of the right kind of actions. These include:
1) Speak out: encourage people to say what they think and challenge existing procedures
2) Listen: managers really listen to people, not just talk at them
3) Cultural differences: these are both recognised and respected
4) Emotional intelligence: leaders and managers demonstrate empathy
5) Consistency: managers say what they mean and mean what they say
6) Relationship building: this has a high priority across the organisation
7) Fairness: decision making is expected to be objective so those in a weaker bargaining position are not exploited.
8) Openness: open communication allows all employees to share their concerns with management.
9) Integrity: managers and leaders model ethical and socially responsible behaviour
10) Shared values: these are constantly articulated and checks made on whether these are being acted upon.
Trust makes the quest for engagement achievable. Without it engagement shrivels and dies. To generate trust though depends on a steady accumulation of the right kind of actions. These include:
1) Speak out: encourage people to say what they think and challenge existing procedures
2) Listen: managers really listen to people, not just talk at them
3) Cultural differences: these are both recognised and respected
4) Emotional intelligence: leaders and managers demonstrate empathy
5) Consistency: managers say what they mean and mean what they say
6) Relationship building: this has a high priority across the organisation
7) Fairness: decision making is expected to be objective so those in a weaker bargaining position are not exploited.
8) Openness: open communication allows all employees to share their concerns with management.
9) Integrity: managers and leaders model ethical and socially responsible behaviour
10) Shared values: these are constantly articulated and checks made on whether these are being acted upon.
2009年8月10日 星期一
多元、底線與文明
讀到亞洲週刊論及是屆書展,見有中國思想史學者林毓生談到多元須有底線。
多元應是共識的多元,多元沒底線就會散掉。
他說:「事物必須要有底線,多元底下有一種強烈的價值觀念,是大家認同的。事物須有底線,這與文明有關係。某一種文明到了一定程度就必須有價值觀念,在價值觀念的基礎上才有多元,甚麼都可以就沒有文明了。文明的起源蘊含了很強烈的限制觀點,建立最根本的價值觀念,這樣文明才能發展。」說的真是 !
是次甚麼嚫模的書,他說若不違法律,不觸及底線是可以出版。但問題是那麼多不同書刊,為何單要特顯嚫模的書? 其他的書不重要嗎 ? 這就是媒體的責任與引導出了問題。
多元應是共識的多元,多元沒底線就會散掉。
他說:「事物必須要有底線,多元底下有一種強烈的價值觀念,是大家認同的。事物須有底線,這與文明有關係。某一種文明到了一定程度就必須有價值觀念,在價值觀念的基礎上才有多元,甚麼都可以就沒有文明了。文明的起源蘊含了很強烈的限制觀點,建立最根本的價值觀念,這樣文明才能發展。」說的真是 !
是次甚麼嚫模的書,他說若不違法律,不觸及底線是可以出版。但問題是那麼多不同書刊,為何單要特顯嚫模的書? 其他的書不重要嗎 ? 這就是媒體的責任與引導出了問題。
多元與底線及文明
讀亞州週刊談今屆書展報導,有訪問中國思想史學者林毓生關於何謂多元,他一針見血地說多元應有底線,2決2肘3辰水線的多元會散掉。關於嚫模現象的書,他說可以出版,但傳媒單在此大造文章就大有問題。
「多元應是具有共識的多元。文明到了一定程度就必須有價值觀念,在價值觀念上才能有多元,甚麼都可以就沒有文明了。」就得真好 !
「多元應是具有共識的多元。文明到了一定程度就必須有價值觀念,在價值觀念上才能有多元,甚麼都可以就沒有文明了。」就得真好 !
Vacation in Mainland
We went on vacation last week in mainland for a five days trip.
It' s worth for the year when we can go together. It's hot summer time but as it rained and so cooling off a lot when we were around! The BEST memory to me is to go up Taishan in Taian this time where last time I went almost thirty years ago !
It' s worth for the year when we can go together. It's hot summer time but as it rained and so cooling off a lot when we were around! The BEST memory to me is to go up Taishan in Taian this time where last time I went almost thirty years ago !
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