2009年8月31日 星期一

Silver wedding

I read from the web the following words for our 25th wedding anniversary today !

Silver Wedding Anniversary is a milestone-wedding anniversary. Spending a quarter of a century together calls in for a gala celebration.

Silver is definitely the symbolical gift for a silver jubilee. The occasion is special reflective of a life of unity and promise.

幽默

To succeed in life, you need three things: a wishbone, a backbone and a funnybone.
人生要成功,有三樣東西不可缺少:願望、毅力、幽默。Reba Mcentire

Humor is a rubber sword -- it allows you to make a point without drawing blood.
幽默是把橡皮造的劍:容許你刺中要害卻不流血。Mary Hirsch

2009年8月30日 星期日

點線面體

點  定位、開始、角度、標記
悔改、立場

線  持續、旅程、過程、界限
獻身、委身


面  承載、反照、範圍、反映
見證、價值


體  實物、素質、重量、份量
群體、教會

2009年8月15日 星期六

Trust-Building : 10 ways to bring back trust

I borrowed a book by Andrew Leigh on The secrets of success in management this afternoon and went to his mentioned website www.maynardleigh.co.uk to find the following ten rules on trust building :

Trust makes the quest for engagement achievable. Without it engagement shrivels and dies. To generate trust though depends on a steady accumulation of the right kind of actions. These include:

1) Speak out: encourage people to say what they think and challenge existing procedures
2) Listen: managers really listen to people, not just talk at them
3) Cultural differences: these are both recognised and respected
4) Emotional intelligence: leaders and managers demonstrate empathy
5) Consistency: managers say what they mean and mean what they say
6) Relationship building: this has a high priority across the organisation
7) Fairness: decision making is expected to be objective so those in a weaker bargaining position are not exploited.
8) Openness: open communication allows all employees to share their concerns with management.
9) Integrity: managers and leaders model ethical and socially responsible behaviour
10) Shared values: these are constantly articulated and checks made on whether these are being acted upon.

2009年8月10日 星期一

多元、底線與文明

讀到亞洲週刊論及是屆書展,見有中國思想史學者林毓生談到多元須有底線。

多元應是共識的多元,多元沒底線就會散掉。

他說:「事物必須要有底線,多元底下有一種強烈的價值觀念,是大家認同的。事物須有底線,這與文明有關係。某一種文明到了一定程度就必須有價值觀念,在價值觀念的基礎上才有多元,甚麼都可以就沒有文明了。文明的起源蘊含了很強烈的限制觀點,建立最根本的價值觀念,這樣文明才能發展。」說的真是 !

是次甚麼嚫模的書,他說若不違法律,不觸及底線是可以出版。但問題是那麼多不同書刊,為何單要特顯嚫模的書? 其他的書不重要嗎 ? 這就是媒體的責任與引導出了問題。

多元與底線及文明

讀亞州週刊談今屆書展報導,有訪問中國思想史學者林毓生關於何謂多元,他一針見血地說多元應有底線,2決2肘3辰水線的多元會散掉。關於嚫模現象的書,他說可以出版,但傳媒單在此大造文章就大有問題。

「多元應是具有共識的多元。文明到了一定程度就必須有價值觀念,在價值觀念上才能有多元,甚麼都可以就沒有文明了。」就得真好 !

Vacation in Mainland

We went on vacation last week in mainland for a five days trip.

It' s worth for the year when we can go together. It's hot summer time but as it rained and so cooling off a lot when we were around! The BEST memory to me is to go up Taishan in Taian this time where last time I went almost thirty years ago !